Barbara Fontana, Ph.D 45 Route 25A Shoreham, NY 11786 Ph: 631-821-1880 Fax: 631-821-4750

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Couples Therapy My work with couples is based on Imago Relationship Therapy Imago therapy helps: Couples to better understand the dynamics of their relationship. To improve their communication To be respectful of each other's point of view To resolve conflicts To meet each other’s needs To have a romantic connection To have a loving relationship To have the relationship of their dreams through a process of healing dialogue and re-connection. When we fall in love, it’s supposed to be forever. We meet the person of our dreams and a magical transformation takes place within us. We feel alive, whole, safe, and happy. Over time that magical feeling disappears and conflict often increases. We feel disappointed and blame our partners because they are not meeting our emotional needs. We may criticize, withdraw, shame, explode, intimidate, shut down or submit as we try to deal with our hurt feelings and disappointment during times of conflict. Some couples stay in this painful power struggle for years feeling that they have grown apart. Imago therapy helps couples transform their relationships. Couples learn that conflict is growth trying to happen. The Dialogue process fosters safe, open, honest communication. By understanding their partners through the Dialogue process, couples re-connect and their relationship often evolves into the powerful bond that is real love. Through Imago therapy I help couples create a sacred space for healing and growth that can lead them to a more loving, respectful and passionate relationship. Imago Relationship Therapy was created by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., and his wife Helen LaKellyHunt, Ph.D. Dr. Hendrix’s book Getting The Love You Want: A Guide for Couples is the best book I have ever read on marriage. Imago Relationships International is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to create a new model for marriage and other committed relationships and transform the world one relationship at a time. You can visit their website to find Imago Couples Therapists and Workshops worldwide.   Tip of the Week for Couples... You can cultivate healthy passion by pursuing an activity you both enjoy. Engaging in exhilarating activities strengthens your connection with each other. See more tips... You can sign up to receive a new tip for couples each week by providing your email address in the box to the left. More Relationship Information... "The Relationship" blog provides more excellent information about Imago couples counseling.